Should our strongest attractions be trusted and followed?
Whether you find yourself immediately drawn to specific people, struggling with obsessive attraction, losing interest once relationships become real, or finding yourself in familiar roles—dating and relationship struggles can bring up painful questions that aren't easy to answer on our own.
What often surprises—and relieves—people is this:
Many confusing attractions are far more understandable than they first appear.
Over many years of working with clients, I found that confusing attractions fall into a surprisingly small number of recognizable patterns—patterns that often reveal deeper needs, longings, and familiar ways of relating that are otherwise easy to miss.
This understanding of attraction patterns has gradually become the foundation of my therapeutic approach. Once people recognize the pattern they're experiencing, confusion often gives way to clarity, making dating and relationship decisions much easier to navigate.
