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Whether you are looking for clarity and relief around dating, relationships or recurring sexual fantasies or compulsive behaviors
Many of the most important conversations I have with clients often centers on understanding how romantic and sexual attraction actually works.
This includes attraction within our closest relationships, as well as the people, qualities, and fantasies that most powerfully capture our attention.
Because of this, my practice now focuses mainly on three areas.
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Dating & Relationship Confusion—>
Pornography & Compulsive Sexual Behavior—>
Unwanted Attractions & Identity Questions—>
Wherever you are in the process, a brief complementary phone or zoom call can help you get clarity on the next step.
Practical Articles and Resources
Explore articles and practical resources designed to help you navigate common dating and relationship questions.
Discover the four most common attraction patterns that may help explain your situation.
Get psychologically-grounded, ideologically free answers to the some of the most commonly asked questions around same-sex attraction and sexual identity.
Looking Beyond Surface Experiences
Many people come to therapy hoping to change confusing feelings, unwanted behaviors or painful relationship patterns. When helping clients, I’ve found it most helpful to begin by understanding why particular people, fantasies and situations become so emotionally compelling in the first place.
Watch a brief introduction to my approach.
Understanding Attraction, Introductory Video by Koby Frances, PhD