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Koby Frances, PhD

Every person brings a unique story.

But many come to therapy seeking greater clarity about relationships, unwanted sexual feelings, compulsive behaviors, or questions related to attraction and identity.

Below are three areas in which I most commonly work.

Orthodox Jewish Dating & Relationships

Get clarity, guidance and direction from someone with years of experience, who truly understands what its like.

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Pornography & Compulsive Sexual Behavior

Develop a deeper, individualized understanding of unwanted sexual urges and behaviors—and build a path toward lasting change.

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Same-Sex Attraction & Identity

Psychologically grounded guidance for unwanted attractions, identity questions, and life decisions.

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Whether you’re ready to set up a first meeting or still not quite sure how to begin, a brief phone or zoom call can help you get the clarity you need.


Explore articles and practical resources designed to help you navigate common dating and relationship questions.

Discover the four most common attraction patterns that may help explain your situation.

Get psychologically-grounded, ideologically neutral answers to the some of the most commonly asked questions around same-sex attraction and sexual identity

Looking Beyond Symptoms

Many people come to therapy hoping to change confusing feelings, unwanted behaviors or painful relationship patterns. When helping clients, I’ve found it most helpful to begin by understanding why particular people, fantasies and situations become so emotionally compelling in the first place.

Watch a brief introduction to my approach

 
 



Questions? Let’s Talk. It’s Ok if you’re not sure where to start.

Every new client begins with a free 15-minute phone or Zoom consultation—a chance to ask questions, discuss your situation and see if we’re a good fit.

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