Many thoughtful adults don’t struggle with the absence of desire — they struggle with understanding it.
You may feel strong chemistry that doesn’t translate into compatibility. You may notice recurring attraction patterns that feel confusing or disproportionate. Or you may find yourself repeating relational dynamics you don’t fully understand.
Therapy offers a structured way to slow down, examine these patterns, and build clarity that supports steadier, more intentional relationships.
How I Work
My work focuses on the intersection of attraction, attachment, and nervous system regulation. Rather than treating attraction or behavior in isolation, we examine the psychological systems that shape desire and connection.
The goal is not to prescribe outcomes, but to clarify patterns — reducing shame and increasing stability in dating and relational life.