Koby Frances, PhD
Do You Ever Find Yourself Wondering:
Why do relationships feel so hard?
Why can’t my dating life be more straightforward?
Why do I keep feeling stuck in the same patterns?
Clients bring questions like these into my office all the time. This makes sense. Dating and relationships can be really challenging—and sometimes quite painful.
Fortunately, over more than 15 years of clinical practice, I’ve repeatedly seen clients experience remarkable clarity and relief once our conversations began to focus on:
The Very Beginnings of Attraction—the excitement that gets sparked simply by seeing or thinking about a specific person.
While attraction isn’t the only factor that shapes dating and relationship experiences, I’ve found that it is one of the least understood—and often most revealing.
When we begin to understand who excites us and why, we often see not only our relationships differently, but ourselves as well—with greater clarity, compassion, and confidence.
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Introduction to Understanding Attraction
by Koby Frances, PhD
Explore articles and practical resources designed to help you navigate common dating and relationship questions.
Discover the four most common attraction patterns that may help explain your situation.
Learn how understanding attraction can change the way you think about relationships