a different approach

Are you looking for a different way to understand sexual desire, relationships and sexual identity? Are you sensing that there is more to the picture than what the culture is telling you? 

Dr. Koby Frances

This website is designed to provide you with some alternative information on these issues in a way that is compassionate, common-sense and in synch with traditional and religious family values.

Through my 15 years of successful clinical practice with a wide range of sexual desire and intimacy issues, I have discovered something truly amazing and encouraging about issues of same-sex attraction, unwanted sexual urges, sex addictions, heterosexual disinterest and sexual identity confusion:

In many situations like these, traditional therapy is not the first approach. Rather, it is the identification and correction of harmful myths about sexuality, relationships, gender and identity that we are bombarded with on a daily basis.

The information on this website is therefore designed to empower people with the knowledge that I have gained through my many years of experience, to help people think rationally even if it veers from the popular beliefs. To assist people in separating popular misconception from fact using logic, timeless Judeo-Christian values and scientifically established theories. This includes clearly identifying those social and cultural forces that keep so many people rigidly locked into irrational and disproven beliefs.

Please use this website as a learning resource.

Under the LEARN tab you can get a general understanding of the specific issues that I have expertise in.

If you are a member of the clergy, priest, rabbi, teacher, academic, therapist or institutional leader and want to go even deeper to gain a more scholarly and specific understanding of these topics, I encourage you to click on the PUBLICATIONS tab where you will find scholarly articles that I’ve written as well as pre-recorded training videos for therapists, all of which were highly acclaimed and seen by hundreds of Rabbis and therapists across the globe.

And of course, if there’s a more personal or complicated issue that I can assist you with, please go ahead and schedule a free 15 minute phone/zoom consultation with me.

You are not alone with your questions and concerns.

it would be my pleasure to help in any way that I can.

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